Grief is a natural reaction to loss. Nothing seems to be a secret about it! Yet, many find it an enigma of a scary sort. Grief is a territory people wander on the outer edges without disturbing anyone inside the terrain of loss. As with any unknown or undiscovered, grief and the melancholy of it, the nostalgia of a past gone by, are pondered with a curious sidelong glance. One thing that people overlook is the fact that grief has been in their lives since they were born! The